By District Attorney Susan K. Treadaway 

Courage, strength, and determination – that is what it takes for survivors of domestic violence to escape abusive relationships and receive the justice they deserve. 

During my career as a prosecutor, I have handled countless domestic violence cases, including those involving individuals who lost their lives at the hands of their abusers. Their stories are forever in my heart, inspiring me to remain committed to serving those affected by domestic violence, educating our community about this crime, and prosecuting abusers to the full extent of the law.

How To Spot Domestic Violence

It’s not always easy to recognize signs of domestic violence. An individual in an abusive relationship may reduce social engagement, show personality changes, appear more anxious or depressed, and/or express feelings about suicide. They
may also have physical injuries such as bruises and black eyes, which they might attempt to hide.

Sadly, many individuals suffer for years at the hands of their abusers because they are reluctant or afraid to report abuse.

How You Can Help

If someone you know is in an abusive relationship, do not be surprised if he/she minimizes your concerns and defends the abuser’s behavior as love or devotion. It is best to offer a listening ear and suggest reaching out to the Cherokee Family Violence Center for specialized services including emergency shelter and transitional housing.

Keep in mind that when abusers realize they are losing control of a relationship, they may resort to further violence. Statistics show this is the most dangerous time in an abusive relationship. In fact, a common hurdle for escaping an abuser is fear of retaliatory violence. Remember, if someone is in immediate physical danger, call 911.

What Next?

After a domestic violence crime is investigated by local law enforcement, the District Attorney’s Office receives the case and assigns it to the Domestic Violence Unit, where prosecutors, investigators, and victim advocates provide the tailored services that these cases require.

Prosecuting domestic violence can be especially challenging due to relationship dynamics. The individual who has suffered abuse may be reluctant to prosecute due to feelings of love (or fear). The defendant may attempt to continue to manipulate the victim — apologizing, promising to change, and even using the couple’s children or financial dependence as ploys. Sometimes, mental illness or substance abuse is a factor.

When an individual victimized by these crimes does not want to prosecute, the DA’s Office still proceeds with the case. We are bound to the duty of protecting all victims and our community.

Impact on Our Community

In 2022, the Domestic Violence Unit prosecuted 277 cases, which included murder, aggravated battery, and strangulation.

Every October during Domestic Violence Awareness Month, the DA’s Office remembers precious lives lost and honors survivors of these crimes. Survivor stories inspire us, as we continue to serve and protect our community.

Where To Get Help

If you or someone you know is a victim of domestic violence, help is available.

1. Call 911 if in danger
2. Call the Statewide Domestic Violence Hotline, 800-33-HAVEN (42836)
3. Contact the Cherokee Family Violence Center, CFVC.orgCFVC.org